Showing posts with label thrifty. Show all posts
Showing posts with label thrifty. Show all posts

Thursday, December 1, 2011

The Personal Touch

What kind of holiday shopper are you?  Do you shop ahead, finding bargains or “perfect gifts” throughout the year?  Or, do you wait until the twelfth hour, joining the pressing crowds, revelling in last minute deals or the challenges of competitive shopping.  I used to be a member of the latter camp but found, after stressing our December finances beyond tolerance, that the former method was more easily managed…both by our budget and my nerves.  As years went by, I also realized that some gift-giving options wouldn’t have been available when shopping last minute.  By shopping ahead, I could make points redemption from certain online merchants to ensure gifts, shipped directly to recipients, arrived in time and wrapped.  In leaner years, to spare our budget, early preparation enabled us to gift in more creative ways, yet still impart our love and care.

Gifts from the kitchen proved popular.  Soup mixes – varying mixtures of beans, grains and spice blends with ingredient list and instruction labels – are a great way to bring warmth to someone’s winter day.  You’ll save even more money on each jar if you’ve been bulking up.  Hot-buttered rum mix is another popular gift from the kitchen though, requiring refrigeration, it either needs specialized shipping or personal delivery.  Hot drink mixes hold up better if your shipping gifts.  A batch of home-made noodles, dried and packaged in an air-tight container, makes a fabulous gift for the pasta (and soup) lovers on your list.  This might not ship well, either, as the home-made noodles tend to break easier than store-bought varieties.  Some home-made truffles ship well and are delicious at any time of year.  Candies and brittles are another sweet yet thrifty treat most people enjoy.  In years past, I’ve also prepared traditional holiday foods – old-world recipes mostly producing copious quantities – and distributed these familiar treats to family members who also love those recipes but don’t make them because of the volume results. It was a great way of sharing traditional meals when we couldn’t actually get together.

PJ's for the Grandkids
Well-crafted, home-made items are not only a thoughtful way of gifting, you can  make for high-quality items for much less cost, particularly if you buy on sale or from “remnant” bunks.  When I was a child, my mother made new pajamas  for my sister and I, each Christmas -- that “soft gift” under the tree always confirmed the eagerly anticipated plush flannel nighties.  A few years ago, I did the same thing for my grand-children and those gifts were apparently worn thin, too.  Home-made personal products (creams, body scrubs, lip balms, etc.,) make nice gifts, particularly if prettily packaged.  It’s a good idea to include an ingredient label for recipients so allergic reactions can be avoided. Home decor objects like curtains, pillow covers, calendar hangers, or a set of matching napkins and placemats are quick and easy projects with a sewing machine, some rudimentary skill, and careful fabric choices.  The sense of smell is most commonly linked to memory, so to be long-remembered, craft some closet or drawer freshener sachets.  It can be hard to find something unique and special for unique gifts for the elderly or infirm.  Sometimes being of service means the most to them; they may need something heavy moved or a difficult household chore done.  Or, plan a special meal  as treat for a shut-in.

Don’t forget cards and packaging.  If gifting  cash or retail gift cards a home-made card with heartfelt sentiment can personalize the gift and reduce shipping costs to a minimum.  Attractive packaging and containers add a long-lasting element to gifts of all sorts. You can embellish common containers for reinforcement or to provide a dark environment for light-sensitive foods or creams.


Whether or not the budget is tight, or time is a crunch, there’s distinct joy in cooking, baking or crafting gifts; a greater sense of connection to the people for whom I’m tailoring the gift.  It needn’t be costly to share one’s love:  a box of goodies from the kitchen, a simple pomander tied with ribbon, or some time spent cleaning Great-grandmother’s ceiling fan.  Personalized care is always gladly received.


Sunday, February 15, 2009

Thriving On Thrift: An Introduction

Thrift is the foundation of my life. There was little choice; necessity prevailed for most of my childhood and adult life. Sure, there have been times of affluence, but frugality is a hard habit to break. Indulgences occur, but are never the norm. At this point in life, now that my children have homes and families of their own, I find I'm able to afford the things I once "did without." Yet, still I resist them. It's not due to some misplaced sense of martyrdom. Not at all. Home-cooking simply tastes better than convenience foods. Rags work better, cost less, and haven't the waste of paper towels. Sewing produces clothes that actually fit me -- and last much longer, too!

These remarks aren't intended to start a pity party. Quite the contrary. My life is full and happy. I never lack the necessities, and frequently enjoy treats. To quote Catherine Pulsifer, "Being frugal does not mean being cheap! It means being economical and avoiding waste." I couldn't agree more. In fact, I've been thriving.

The quality of one's life, and the marks that leaves on this world, is my measure of thriving, and it's amazing how a thrifty lifestyle feeds this spirit. This is not about religion, politics, or other social agendas. This is about the elation and satisfaction that come from providing one's basic needs in a visceral, hands-on way, and the fruitful by-products of that lifestyle.

I'm reminded of how I feel when returning home from a camping trip. Sure, a part of me yearns for a long soak in the tub. But, there is also a deep melancholy at the thought of returning to the usual routine. Somehow, modern life has become filled with mountains of trivia, contraptions, and societal mores that quicken the pace of life, yet rarely satisfy. When I go camping, all that slips away. The only matter of importance is catching fish for dinner. Daily living is reduced to the basics: food, fuel, and shelter. Little else matters. Yet, in meeting these basic needs the days are full, active and supremely satisfying. I never sleep better than when camping!

So, my purpose in beginning this blog is to share ideas on thrifty living which exemplify such ideas as: Convenience often comes at the expense of quality; cost-effective rarely means the cheapest item on the shelf; less can be more, and frequently is; a thrifty life has many riches.

Also, as a child of the sixties, I have a persistent mantra ingrained into me: Reduce, Re-Use, Recycle! Fortunately, thrift is very ecologically-friendly. So, my other purpose in starting this blog is to share ways which help us all live lightly, harmoniously and joyfully on this wonderful Earth of ours.

I'd love to read about your ideas for thrifty living, too. If you'd like to see a topic covered, please feel free to email me. There couldn't be a better time for us help one another live better for less!